See my guest blog on http://www.50letters.com/ dated March 31, 2010
1. Figure it out. Who you are now and who and how you want to be. Write it down. Start with five things. Add, cross off as you go.
2. Ask people. Send out a quick email or text asking people for 3 words to describe you. I was surprised by what I got back.
3. Tell people. Give back. Make sure you tell people what you see in them – It’s another way of saying thank you.